Love & Other Disasters by Anita Kelly
“Don’t run away. Wait with me. Be with me.” She swallowed.
“You’re braver than this,” London whispered. “Don’t run away.”
Friends, I’m about to gush over “Love & Other Disasters” by Anita Kelly. I wanted my first LitBuzz review to be one that I could shout about from the rooftops. I know we don’t know each other that well yet, but I’m going to need you to trust me when I say go preorder this book right now.
I’m not kidding, do it this instant. Go ahead, go now. I’ll wait.
Ok, now that we’ve taken care of business, I’ll resume my obsession over this fast-paced, adorkable and charming rom-com that fans of Alison Cochrun’s “The Charm Offensive” and any competition show on the Food Network will truly devour. I’ve never highlighted so many passages in an e-book before. “Love & Other Disasters” has everything you could want in a rom-com: laugh-out-loud lines, charm, chemistry, steam, and longing. I’m going to need a physical copy of this book so that I can refer back to my favorite parts over and over again for many re-reads to come.
Dahlia and London are competitors on “Chef’s Special”, a cooking show for amateur chefs attempting to win $100,000. Each has applied to the cooking show for different reasons: Dahlia, to prove to herself that she could live her life out loud and create a new dream for herself after her divorce, while London aims to win the prize money in hope that they can start a non-profit for LGBTQIA and non-binary kids. Dahlia’s spark and sass is an electrical charge, a beacon of light that shines on others. London, conversely, is the stoic and steady ‘grump’ that we didn’t know we needed in our lives.
I can only speak for myself, but I imagine each character as a very real person. Dahlia and London might be fictitious, but their conflicts and issues are very real: divorce, questions of identity, sexuality, family drama, and even someone, somewhere competing on an amateur cooking show, the lucky devil. I always try to put myself in their shoes, in the shoes of their family, their best friend. This is my long winded way of saying Anita Kelly made me feel all of the feelings.
Dahlia’s inner strength and self-awareness is awe inspiring. She made tough choices in the name of her own happiness and has to deal with those repercussions. Her character reminds me of the phrase “speak the truth, even if your voice shakes.”
“But maybe it was okay to be selfish with some things. And it was a hard thing to explain. That they didn’t want to be a man, but that they had never felt quite right as a girl. That they only started to feel really okay when they understood they could be their own thing.”
I’m so happy to have read my first book with a character using “they/them” as their pronouns. London is a beautiful character, and I know there are going to be so many people who will be able to see themselves in London.
You want to know who wins? You want to know if they fall in love? Grab a copy of Love & Other Disasters ASAP. That’s it. That’s all I can say without spoilers.
Stick around! I’m looking forward to sharing tons more of my recommendations with you soon.